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hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Your friends are brilliant Hopeful. xx

Posted on: September 23, 2012 - 6:54pm

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Good luck with the portacath today Hopeful (although if I am honest I have no idea what one is Wink), will you hear today that your bloods are ok, or will that be when you see the oncologist tomorrow?

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 9:42am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Anna, a portacath is a little metal box that sits under your skin near the jugular vein with a connection into it. It means that instead of having to look for veins in my arm every time they can just lock into it through there.

No idea when I get the results - probably they'll say they're ok when I turn up on Wednesday and I'll have to argue my case to actually see them. Will ask the oncologist tomorrow though. :-)

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 9:50am

Anna
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Thanks for the info Hopeful, the portacath sounds like a good idea, nurses never seem to be able to find my veins I often come out quite mottled with bruises! Wishing it all goes well for you today Smile

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 10:31am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

All done! The actual procedure took about twenty minutes (brilliant) - I had no sedative and nobody tried to talk me into one either (yay!). Chatted with the surgeon wether he should take his wife to Vienna for a weekend away and listened to Bon Jovi during the op. A bit sore now, but there was a fair bit of pushing and shoving going on and I am sure it will pass. :-) So all set for Wednesday.

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 4:56pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Well done.  I'm glad that's done and hope that the soreness soon wears off.

 

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 5:52pm

Sally W
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Thats great that you did not have to be sedated, will be thinking off you on Wednesday!

Posted on: September 24, 2012 - 6:05pm

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Saw an oncologist today - not the main lovely consultant, but the next one down the ladder who was equally lovely and was impressed with me still studying despite chemo, yay! :-)

Chemo tomorrow, but I get my lecture in first. :-) Just in case I'm not on here for a few days....

Posted on: September 25, 2012 - 6:13pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hope the lecture is interesting, and will be thinking of you...

Posted on: September 25, 2012 - 10:49pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Good luck today, Hopeful.

Posted on: September 26, 2012 - 8:44am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hope you're ok hopeful.

Posted on: September 27, 2012 - 10:10am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Thinking of you and hoping you are getting plenty of TLC

Posted on: September 28, 2012 - 7:42am

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

How are you feeling Hopeful? Hope you're okay. x

Posted on: September 28, 2012 - 9:04am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Wow, I have slept for England! Not so foggy though, because I'm not taking as many antisickness. And I would have come to report back earlier, only I didn't have the energy to fight daughter for the laptop - she was doing homework and surely that has to be encouraged. :-)

Was sick on Wednesday; I think it's because the chemo was earlier in the day and I wasn't lying down quietly. Never mind.

Will hopefully be up and running again by Sunday!

 

Posted on: September 28, 2012 - 12:42pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Yes, homework should be encouraged :-)

Hope you have a nice tea for this evening.

Posted on: September 28, 2012 - 5:03pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Delighted to hear you're okay Hopeful, barring the sickness that is. Sleep is the best medicine too, so get plenty of it. x

Posted on: September 28, 2012 - 7:04pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hope you will continue to improve over the weekend, Hopeful. Remember about the lying down next time if this is something you felt helped the first time.

Has anyone made you lasagne? Wink

Posted on: September 29, 2012 - 7:58am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

No lasagne so far (but possibly tonight) - lots of sausages. Yesterday it was cottage pie with lots of cheese in the topping, that was yummy. Tomorrow it will be a roast at the friend's house who is making it.

I had a shower this morning (two days early - the portacath surgeon said to give it a week, but I couldn't stand it any more) so feel more human. Also done the weeks shopping - although I must be a bit foggy: a student colleague had to jump right in my face for me to see him.

Had two naps so far today and daughter has cleared the kitchen and front room and has made fudge - the whole house smells of it - but my tastebuds have taken another dive, just as they had recovered from the last lot! What a shame.

 

Posted on: September 29, 2012 - 4:07pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Waaah! but just think of how much you are going to enjoy getting them back again!

Posted on: September 29, 2012 - 8:18pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Oh no, that's a shame you couldn't enjoy the fudge...

Posted on: September 29, 2012 - 9:22pm

rudimentary mary
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hope your tastebuds have rallied in time for your roast dinner, Hopeful.

Glad to read you had a couple of cat naps yesterday - how has today been for you?

Posted on: September 30, 2012 - 5:15pm

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Hopeful, thinking of you :)

Posted on: October 1, 2012 - 11:06am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Am fine, have done the washing up (you'd think the little people would do that, wouldn't you....) and am hoping to get on with some uni stuff. Am feeling very much like picking at lots of junk food.... :-/

I shall be fat!

Posted on: October 1, 2012 - 11:11am

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Oh well, fat but happy! If you are worried though, get a big piece of paper and write on it:

Fridge Pickers wear Bigger Knickers...

that always makes me laugh!! Laughing

It sounds as though your daughter is looking after you, now how can we get the others to join in?

Posted on: October 1, 2012 - 11:19am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Glad you're feeling fine.

I always hope little people would wash up - or even not so little little people...

 

Posted on: October 1, 2012 - 7:14pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

And my not very little people know that the washing up is THEIR JOB Wink

How are you feeling, Hopeful?

Posted on: October 2, 2012 - 9:47am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

I am fine, just waiting for a friend to come for lunch and then some uniwork. and then zumba! :-)

Posted on: October 2, 2012 - 1:20pm

Hopeful
DoppleMe

I am fine, just waiting for a friend to come for lunch and then some uniwork. and then zumba! :-)

Posted on: October 2, 2012 - 1:20pm

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Ha ha ha! Are you serious! Wow, you must be superwoman. I know it gets your happy hormones working, but please don't overdo it Hopeful Smile

Posted on: October 2, 2012 - 4:24pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

You're going to Zumba?  As Anna says, Have fun, but don't do too much

Posted on: October 2, 2012 - 4:32pm

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Yay, went to zumba and it was great to be normal. Going again tomorrow. This has been a bit of a mad week (almost wrote wig here...). Zumba Tuesday. Uni and lunch out with the girls on Wednesday (we had RUNNY eggs and chips Tongue Out). Today I went and got the wig - who is called Cameron - a couple of friends came along for the 'haircut' and then another met us and we went for dinner at the restaurant No1 son works.

Will go out tomorrow again, after Zumba, to a wine and wisdom thing. Bursting with energy, stuff cancer, ha!!!

Posted on: October 4, 2012 - 9:09pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Good for you hopeful.

Have a great time tomorrow too. x

Posted on: October 4, 2012 - 10:19pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Glad you enjoyed. Had to snigger at the name of your wig Tongue Out My friend called hers Wanda.

Posted on: October 5, 2012 - 8:41am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Oh the wig came with the name. There was one called Audrey and we all agreed that would be absolutely impossible! :-)

Posted on: October 5, 2012 - 9:46am

Sally W
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

What kind of hair style did you go for hopeful?

Posted on: October 5, 2012 - 1:17pm

Hopeful
DoppleMe

It's kind of a longish bob. They didn't have anything curly, but it's the same colour as my own hair. Went to church with it today (just to show everyone - it's quite itchy, so I don't think I'll use it that much) and everybody loved it. :-)

Posted on: October 7, 2012 - 9:09pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hope you're keeping well.  It's a same its itchy, but glad everyone liked the style Smile

Posted on: October 7, 2012 - 10:25pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

I just love the name of your wig Hopeful. Cameron is a wonderful name!

Hope you're keeping well. Wow, going to Zumba too, I'm so impressed, you're amazing, as I know my friend goes, and she comes back exhausted.

Posted on: October 8, 2012 - 4:56am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Keeping very well! Zumba is great, it makes me feel 'normal', if you know what I mean. I feel really good after - and I sleep especially well on Zumba nights. :-)

Posted on: October 8, 2012 - 9:50pm

pancakequeen
DoppleMe

Hi hopeful, thought I'd catch up on your thread as I felt I didn't really undertand what you're going through at the moment. Sounds like you're coping with a lot but doing it with style. Good for you. Like the sound of zumba but not tried it yet, maybe I should give it a go.

Posted on: October 9, 2012 - 8:23am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

How's the academic stuff going?

Posted on: October 9, 2012 - 8:25am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Ah, Sparkling - the academic stuff is going mostly ok although I should by now have done lots of reading for the dissertation. BUT when everyone goes on placement in two weeks time I won't (because chemo kills the immune system and I might 'catch' something working in a hospital) - my placement will start in January. So I can use all the time people are in placement to do all the essays. It will be ok.

Being optimistic as usual!

Zumba is great, PQ, do try!

Posted on: October 9, 2012 - 8:49pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I think that sounds like an excellent plan.

I'm glad you're enjoying zumba.  I think that is something I'd have enjoyed.  Wonder if they have a sitting down version!! Smile

Posted on: October 10, 2012 - 8:02am

kiera

hi im gona start doin tht zumba when my little girl in nursery ive no1 to av er really. and celebration at freedom programme tomoz and no1 to av my little git, pat craven goin as wellx

Posted on: October 10, 2012 - 10:45am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Oh kiera it would be a shame if you did not go to the celebration

Hopeful, glad you are doing zumba

Sparkling have a look on you tube for sitting down exercises, they seem to have a good selection Smile

Posted on: October 10, 2012 - 2:33pm

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Boodtest tomorrow - I am sure it will be fine and then by Wednesday half of the chemo will be over!

Have come up with a question: why have I lost most of my hair on my head (and some other places), but am still plucking my eyebrows? Such a paradox. But still, I suppose the fewer side effects, the better it is for me.... :-) Not complaining, I seem to have it so easy. Laughing

Posted on: October 14, 2012 - 10:27pm

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Good luck with the bloodtest today, hopefully it will go smoothly now that you have the portacath.

Halfway through chemo already - well done you! Long live eyebrows!

Posted on: October 15, 2012 - 9:58am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

And eyelashes?

Hope all was ok today.

Posted on: October 15, 2012 - 6:37pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hooray for getting halfway through! Smile

A lot of women find losing their eyebrows and lashes more difficult to cope with than losing the hair on their head, so I think it is great you have still got brows. My friend was always miffed that she still had to shave her legs through chemo!

Good luck for the blood test today.

Posted on: October 16, 2012 - 8:24am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

Just had phonecall - my blood's not good enough so EVERYTHING will be postponed by at least a week. I am so upset, just crying now. Cry

The blood test was yesterday btw.

It throws everything, all the planning around stupid chemo, too.

 

Posted on: October 16, 2012 - 1:07pm