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Me and my drama

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

The room has been plastered.  I've to leave it for 6 weeks before painting.  Chap from HA called around though and said no, wait until the plaster looks dry!  One coat won't hurt, but I will leave it a couple of weeks.  I would like to paint before the carpet goes down. 

Even if its mildewy, its going down!  Hopefully I can get it cleaned to freshen it up as its been in the garage so long!

Chap from HA is going to bring undercoat and satin finish gloss (would prefer gloss, gloss, but honestly I'm not moaning) for the woodwork.  He was going to bring paint, but I already have that.

Trying to be positive.  Feeling less negative at least.  Just lots of things to deal with at the moment.

Posted on: November 19, 2011 - 11:35am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Yes, there is a lot going on for you, sparkling and it feels like once you have at least one coat of paint on and the carpet back down that you can begin to think RIGHT , here we go. Hopefully you can get that done before Christmas, then can you get your armchair back?

Posted on: November 19, 2011 - 2:01pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I'm almost craving for an armchair to sit on Laughing  I have it on a platform so I can get in and out easier.  Going to sit in someone elses isn't quite an option - well not without a winch.

Even if its Christmas eve...

Plaster is drying out Smile

Posted on: November 19, 2011 - 5:23pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Glad the plaster is drying Sparkling. Hope you're okay. xxx

Posted on: November 19, 2011 - 5:45pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I'm not nagging, honest....

How long can it take for the money advisor to get back to me please?

Posted on: November 21, 2011 - 10:16am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

What day did you write, sparklng? They say seven days in their section

Posted on: November 21, 2011 - 2:44pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I was wondering if there was anything for eldest really.  I'm pretty sure there isn't though.  Its not a surprise either, as I knew all stopped at 20 Smile

Posted on: November 21, 2011 - 4:11pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Keeping my fingers crossed for you Sparkling. Hope there is something. xx

Posted on: November 21, 2011 - 7:30pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi sparklinglime, I am glad they turned up and were nice. February seems such a long way off, however it will fly by! Before you know it you will be showering to your hearts content Laughing

Posted on: November 22, 2011 - 11:34am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

The work men have gone.

Thank you letter written to the company that the brilliant chappy works for sent to tell them how brilliant he is.  Not at any point has he made me feel awkward about being disabled.  He's been practical, pointing out where grab rails can go and how they are practical placed there.  He has been immaculate and left the bathroom so tidy every night.  He's been polite and he made me laugh. 

That's it now.

All the work has been done.

I have tears that keep streaming down my face.  Even my daughter cried.

It has been such a long - very long - 7 months.  I never though anything would be a nightmare again after we were declared homeless six years back.

Painting will hopefully be done this weekend.  Carpet fitted hopefully be next weekend.  I need a date, as I'm hoping the housing association will come to take the front door off so we can get the settee and armchair in.  So a few expenses to finish off, but money has been put aside for that.

Shower will be usable by morning.  I should be by tonight, but best to wait until the morning so the sealant can go off properly.

 

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 5:27pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Oh yes... and put the front door back on, of course...

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 5:28pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Sparkling, I have got tears in my eyes, too. That's so great, and you deserve it so much Smile

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 5:33pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Thank you.

I'm not sure about deserving it though, as all those "why should the state to do anything for me" doubts have been creeping back in.  Insomnia doesn't help, of course - although it will mean I'll be in the shower early Laughing

I feel dazed.

Thank you so much though for being there.

xxx

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 5:39pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Absolutely brilliant news Sparkling, and don't you dare start doubting whether you deserve it. Hopefully the shower is going to be the start of good things to come for you and the children. Let us all know how the first walk in shower feels for you Smile

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 7:19pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I will probably oversleep in the morning and have to dive out the house to get fifteen year old to the art course!!

The three older ones have decided to paint under the new dado rail rasberry, like the main wall.

Music blaring and amazingly, they're all joyful!

Thank you

xxxxxxxxx

Posted on: December 9, 2011 - 8:38pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Only way to get work done, is having music blaring Sparkling. Just ask Louise Wink

Glad the painting is getting done. It'll look lovely and fresh, and once you have carpet and furniture in, it'll be home Smile

Posted on: December 10, 2011 - 9:20am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

It looks really nice too.

Have had a shower.  It's a shame I have a migraine - all yesterday's drama was a bit too much maybe!

The shower was rather overwhelming too.  Sobbed after!  Hahahaha!  I am a daft banana.

Fifteen year old at college today.

Posted on: December 10, 2011 - 10:34am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Ah but at least you are a clean banana! Tongue out

Posted on: December 10, 2011 - 11:00am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Feels soooooo good too!

Posted on: December 10, 2011 - 11:26am

Sally W
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

So pleased for you sparkling that you have finally been able to shower, and the long wait is nearly over and hopefully all will be done for xmas Smile

Posted on: December 13, 2011 - 1:34pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hoooray! I am sooo pleased for you sparkling. You are a caring, hard working, considerate human being and have been through many hurdles and still you come on here and support others, so YES you DO deserve it Kiss

Posted on: December 13, 2011 - 1:38pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Thank you so much.  Embarassed

I've just had a phone call.  It seems I'm going to have a blind fitted to the window too Smile

Posted on: December 13, 2011 - 4:58pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

ooh so you will be a clean AND private banana!

Posted on: December 14, 2011 - 10:27am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hahahaha!  Have to say that I wait for window to mist up!   

Posted on: December 14, 2011 - 10:59am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

(phew) Sealed

Posted on: December 14, 2011 - 5:30pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

The chappy did come to lay the carpet.  He had to put a join in it, but you wouldn't know...  Also it's a bit wrinkly after the 18 months in the garage, but nothing you can't live with (well, it was free...)

Went to do the wages - and talk, of course.

Came home and the HA had been to take the door off, the children had brought in the settee and the armchair and put the small pre-lit tree up...

Yes, I did cry buckets.  Sobbed, yet again.  And I've been asleep, in the armchair.

OK, still need to iron (my job) the curtains and get them up, but it's done.  It looks lovely.

Good night.

xxx

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 1:29am

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Wow Wow Wow. That is fantastic news Sparkling, carpet down, furniture in, and the comfy armchair for you. No wonder you cried. It's been a long time coming for you. Curtains will take no time at all, and then the living room will be even cosier for you all. Did you go to bed, or did you sleep in the armchair? Really am so so pleased for you. Merry Christmas xxx

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 8:24am

Sally W
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Fantastic, so glad that everything is coming together and you can enjoy your Christmas in comfort sparkling Smile 

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 1:18pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Aww sparkling, me too, I am soo pleased to read that you now have your living room and your bathroom complete before Christmas.

I hope you all have a wonderful holiday Kiss

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 3:14pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Thank you so much.

I went to bed about 1.30am - waited for eldest to come in.  And slept through until 9am!

 

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 5:55pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Lazy Laughingxxxxx

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 6:20pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Tongue out

Posted on: December 20, 2011 - 6:39pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

AT LAST, hooray and in time for Chrimbo too. I bet you are so relieved and happy!!!

Posted on: December 21, 2011 - 8:41am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

So very happy, thank you!  Thing is, I sit in the arm chair and nod off!! 

Posted on: December 21, 2011 - 9:35am

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

I would, too, it's our age, sparkling Wink

Posted on: December 21, 2011 - 10:57am

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Smile

Posted on: December 21, 2011 - 8:10pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Surprised

Posted on: December 21, 2011 - 8:13pm