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sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Not that I have much news!

We had a bbq after school on Monday, as it really was glorious. Glad we did as it's cold here today.

Finished and essay! Hurrah! And thought I'd come and say hello.

Posted on: April 23, 2009 - 1:54pm
Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi sparklinglime

Congrats on finishing your essay!

BBQ sounds great fun, well the kids definitely enjoyed it even if you didn't like the smell!!

Yesterday the weather wasn't so great, but today it is stunning, roll on the summer!

Do you have any plans for the weekend?

Posted on: April 23, 2009 - 2:49pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

My friend is coming over on Saturday morning so we can get a programme for the summer term for Cubs. We thought we might try and be efficient incase we find we do like it!! We were meant to do this last Saturday, but just talked. Have been sorting out a hike and camps with the Scouts too. Not that I hike (I used to ) or camp (never - not unless I'm in the ground floor of a Travelodge and the children are camping outside the window). Not a Scouty bone in my body really!

Sunday my youngest has a football match. We have to leave here at 9am, so I can't see me having a lie-in this weekend.

The weather wasn't too good today. Even the nice weather man was very specific in saying there would be drizzle over Anglesey - the rest of Britain seemed to be very nice!

My daughter is getting the awful cold that I've just managed to shake. I think I may have some company tomorrow.

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 12:02am
Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

I think you are very brave doing Scouty things, if you are not all that enamoured with scout life!!

I also think it is an excellent hobby/job to get you out of the house and doing activities with others, even though they are small boys!!

Good luck with the planning :)

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 12:25pm
harissa

I wish I could get my son interested in the Scouts but alas, he got bored when I sent him along.

Poor critter is off school sick at the moment. He is fast asleep with a nasty chest cold and sickness. I thought he was putting it on at first as he has been on internal exclusion at school all week and was moaning about having to go in when he was barred from all lessons. To be honest he learns a lot more at home, so we'll grateful when he moves up to the next school in September.

My 20 year old daughter had a job interview yesterday. It went very well so we're keeping our fingers crossed that she is lucky this time. Both she and I have been in the demoralising cycle of doing well at job interviews only for a rejection to turn up a week later.

I'm still enjoying my voluntary job at the local archives project. It is really interesting handling material which shows how people used to live around here. Yesterday I was transcribing interviews someone had done with the Ghanaian community, and the week before I was scanning photos of local fund raising processions which took place pre-World War One. Everyone looked so happy and carefree in them!

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 12:47pm
ficurnow

That voluntary post sounds fascinating, Harissa. Hope it could lead on to something else for you. Fi xx

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 5:24pm
harissa

Unfortunately apart from being very interesting none of my voluntary jobs have ever lead on to a paid position...yet (I'm ever the optimist). That just seems to be the way it is in the gallery/museum/local history sector.

Back in the early '90s, I even got involved with preparing a gallery space and hanging a prestigious collection of Indian textiles. The collection owner noticed that I put in more hours and effort than any of the paid workers and was so impressed that she introduced me to someone in the Victoria and Albert Museum's Asian Textile Dept.

I'm considering doing some additional voluntary work in a local gallery too when I get some time.

I'm not as fast a typist as a secretary but I'm finding that copy typing the local archives' interviews is getting my word speed and efficiency up.

The big irony, of course, is that come October the job centre advisers have advised me to drop all my voluntary jobs in order to be "available for work" and to be actively looking for work. If I want to carry on making a difference and using my skills in the local community I'm going to have to go underground ;o) or risk losing my benefit! At the moment I'm making a huge effort to be out there and get seen while I'm still allowed to!

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 6:35pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi harissa, wow that sounds so interesting and yes, you're right, the new regulations kick in when your son turns 12 and there is more "work focus" emphasis. Surely you are still technically available for work if your current projects are voluntary? Hmmm yet another situation where common sense does NOT prevail. I always used to think "Ok then you offer me a job for 16 hours a week doing something decent at £10 an hour and then I will gladly adjust my voluntary work commitments!" ;)

Sparkling lime, well done re the Scouts. I am SUCH an indoor person, I prefer looking out the window to going out ( :lol: ) so when my son was in the Cubs I went as a helper every week to get all the pack through their cookery badge. Eased my conscience and I didnt have to go to camp. Great news about the essay!

Louise

Posted on: April 24, 2009 - 7:45pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Harrisa, that does sound interesting! It would be so brilliant if something does come of it.

I still miss the volunteer work I did with the supported housing group. Even though I said I was happy to carry on without expenses, they still don't want me :( This seems to be happening a fair bit around here though.

Posted on: April 25, 2009 - 9:11am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

I wonder if it is a case of organisations no longer having the capacity to "manage" volunteers, plus of course they have to pay to get a CRB check on them all.

Posted on: April 25, 2009 - 10:56am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I think the disappointing bit was not being given a reason.

I had the CRB and I went on three courses about domestic violence and child abuse, and to a forum to introduce new changes to child safety.

There should have been certificates, but I never received them, which is a shame, as they might be helpful in the future.

The training with Scouts gives me qualifications though, so that might be handy one day.

Posted on: April 25, 2009 - 3:34pm
Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi sparklinglime

I think you should chase up your certificates, its never too late, either through the supported housing people or the organisation that delivered the training. Like you say it looks good with your CV and anything you might venture into in the future.

Posted on: April 27, 2009 - 12:18pm