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Hallowe'en

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

What do you do for Hallowe'en? Do you go trick or treating? Are you horrfied by what they come back with in terms of treats? Do you like people coming to your house or not, for treats? Do you hide behind the settee and not answer the door? Have you got religious reservations about Hallowe'en? Do you wear fancy dress?

Please share your family traditions :D

Posted on: October 23, 2009 - 7:25pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi
For the last few years, I have taken my son to a friends neighbourhood. They really go to town, and the kids come back with a carrier bag of sweets!!!!
Have to say they thought my son was a bit 'wierd', as he was delighted when he received a kiwi. (he loves fruit).
My area isn't so hot on the trick or treating. I always put a pumpkin in the window, and have sweets ready, but don't have many callers I have to say.
I do know that some elderly neighbours here have had eggs thrown at the windows if they don't answer. It is so awful.
I actually think we in England are trying to do what the Americans do, and I don't particularly like it. :)

Posted on: October 23, 2009 - 9:13pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

There are lots of American families round here and so Hallowe'en has become more of a "thing". I do agree about elderly people: even if they don't get egged, they could be scared by groups of teens looming at their door. My Mum doesn't answer the door on that night.

Posted on: October 24, 2009 - 2:04pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

The Git used to do Halloween parties for them (including in the family home with a 'friend' - and I wasn't invited!), and then out of the blue he decided they were evil.

So, we organised a very last minute one (our first halloween here) and the children loved it. We only trick and treat on the estate, as we know where we're welcome, and the children do all sorts here - spiders out of windows on threads onto children's heads, cobwebs...

We have poison and blood for drinks (limeade and cherryade - honest!), and all sorts of Iceland £1 specials!

Most of all we have fun and do it our way.

:D

Posted on: October 24, 2009 - 8:58pm
Pansy

I only let the kids go trick or treating for the first time last year! I finally gave in :lol: only to people we know in the village though.

Our village shop prints posters to ask that no trick or treaters call at house & put them on the counter for anyone to take. Excellent for the elderly, I always pick my 94 yr old Nan one up & go & put it on her door. Excellent idea!

I am very lucky this year, Son is going to his Nan's. Daughters going to a friends for halloween & my parents staying here the rest of weekend, so I can get away you know where! HA!

Pansy

Posted on: October 24, 2009 - 9:50pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Pansy
Sooooooooo, you'll be doing a bit of trick or treating yourself then ;) ;) ;)
Have fun, and I hope the kids have a good time too.
That is a good suggestion about the shop isn't it?
Take care, enjoy your Sunday
Alison
x :)

Posted on: October 25, 2009 - 11:54am
Claire-Louise

Hi There
It is great to hear different family traditions. I take my children trick and treating near another friends house too and visit a few well known houses as a group which is great fun. I do agree though that it is a bit of an american thing that is becomming bigger each year. At my parents village they too have stickers saying no trick or treaters. I think for the older generation it can be a bit intimidating when the older children come round.
The younger children do love it though so I will keep it up for a few years yet.
Enjoy half term and halloween
C-L

Posted on: October 25, 2009 - 12:21pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

What a brillaint idea to have those stickers/posters asking for no trick and treating. On a side note, I have a little printed board nest to my front door (which I bought from an ebay shop) and it says "No cold callers" It avoids all those door to door electricity salesmen, double glazing, religious callers and surveys. If a person occasi0onal ignores the notice, I open the door and point to the notice and say "Sorry we do no accept callers". HA!! :lol: :lol: Mind you, I will cover it up for Hallowe'en as I like to see the kids

Sparkling lime, I had to giggle at the title of your Hallowe'en drinks, we did the same with greee and red when the "Goosebumps" books were popular some years ago.

Posted on: October 26, 2009 - 7:49am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I must get one of those notices.

Where I lived before was on the side of a main road, so we didn't have passing callers, which we do here.

Posted on: October 26, 2009 - 12:51pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Have to laugh - there's me organising a 21st birthday fair for the Scout hut... Seems it's 31!! :lol: I can't count :shock: Having said that, no one else noticed either :roll:

Off to the hut in a mo - may as well stay there until tomorrow evening hahahaha!

Posted on: October 30, 2009 - 1:43pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Get a good seat for when Nick Knowles arrives :oops:

Posted on: October 30, 2009 - 7:46pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi all
How did everyone's Halloween go? I hope the children all had a great time.
I didn't go out, as I wasn't feeling too good, but my friend picked my son up, and took him to the friends that we've been going too for a few years. He had a wonderful time, dressed as a vampire! Brought back enough sweets to last him months (not with me around though) :lol: :lol:
We had a few callers, but we are at the side of a house, so not many people realise we are there.
I took the opportunity of ringing the sperm doner when my son had gone. He is in Spain, and works as a children's entertainer :lol: :lol: :lol:
I asked the receptionist to get him to call me, (I knew he wouldn't). I gave it 10 mins, then rang again, and got her to put me through to his room. As soon as he knew it was me, he put the phone down. I then sent him a text, which went unanswered. Complete waste of space thats what he is.
Hope you all have a lovely peaceful Sunday. The weather is awful here, pouring with rain, and windy, so possibly a pj day. ;) School starts back on Tuesday, and homework still needs doing, so will go and upset my son now. :lol:

Posted on: November 1, 2009 - 11:51am
Claire-Louise

Hi All
Yep we had a great halloween - we got a pumkin from a friend and I decorated it with the children well in advance which was fun. We all drew a pumkin face on paper then picked one thing we each liked from each others drawing and combined those things and we eached carved a bit form that drawing. the my daughter decided it needed hair so we used grasses for the hair and my son want it to have ears so we used flower heads for the ears! It looked quite unique I must say but we had such fun doing it.
We had a real military operation getting everyone to the right place yesterday with birthday parties, Street party, halloween parties, trick and treating, babysitter and adult parties to go to! We managed it all and had a real good time so slobbing around at home today after a it of a lie in and am TV!
The kids got soooo many sweets it was unbelievable! Oliver was a vampire and Natasha a witch - they got their faces painted too at the street party and so really looked the part this year.
The other plus point was that because we were out all evening, we didnt have to deal with people coming round to trick or treat at our house!
Hope you all had a Happy Halloween!
C-L

Posted on: November 1, 2009 - 1:31pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

My lot decided not to go trick n treating - I think they were a bit flat as their friends didn't come around as they did last year. The youngest's friend was here, and they enjoyed answering the door. Only had about six callers (last year we were far busier), so there were loads of sweets left (now in the safe!).

No idea why it was so quiet really, as it was a mild evening and it was dry!

I was far too tired to worry about it though!

Posted on: November 1, 2009 - 3:44pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

I bet you were exhausted sparkling lime, after all your recent excitement!

Glad your son had a good time, alisoncam. Lots of sweets, eh? ;)

Claire-Louise I felt in a whirl just reading about your Hallowe'en. My elder son went out dressed as a zombie and the younger son went to a party festooned with flashing devils' horns and we had a lot of callers for sweets, hardly any left now :?

Posted on: November 1, 2009 - 5:45pm
Claire-Louise

My children said it was the best bit of half term the halloween trick and treating and party so I am glad we managed the whorlwind plan of events now as it is all so worth it when they are greatful for the effort you put in. Doesn't happen that often so I am really glad for the times when it does - I am knackered now though recovering from such a hectic and late night! It takes me weeks to recover anything later than about a 10 o'clock bedtime these days!!!!
C-L

Posted on: November 2, 2009 - 5:09pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

It takes me weeks to recover from staying up till 10pm! :D

Glad it has beena decent half term for so many of us, now we have Bonfire Night on the horizon. Unbelieveably, my son's school has a Parent's Evening that night, I am sure there are many families wiht smaller children who would like to have gone to a bonfire

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 9:10am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

We've cancelled the Cubs, Scouts and Explorer's on Thursday - my fault... Said I wasn't missing the fireworks! :lol: The rugby club has a brilliant display, usually, so virtually everyone goes there - so little point sitting in the Scout hut sulking.

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 12:49pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Good for you Sparkling, you need to do something for just you and your children :)
Am sure scouts etc will off to a fireworks display too.
Have fun. Will just get my son some sparklers. Haven't seen anything advertised round here yet, and I don't like doing them myself. Hopefully, there'll be something for him to go too, but if not, we can watch them from the window.

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 1:38pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I hope you find some sparklers - I've not even looked yet!

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 3:58pm
Claire-Louise

I think the main display here is on the weekend after guy fawlks so hoping to go then or watch from our attic window! My son went to a party the other day where they had fireworks and said 'we never do fireworks at my house' - I felt like such a meany but I don't like doing them myself and I think they are so expensive too! I do like watching them from a distance though as I like the look of them but am not so keen on the really loud banging ones - what a softy I am, as wel as a meany - oh well!
C-L

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 4:02pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

You're not mean at all. I even begrudge the sparklers! Money going up in smoke!!

Don't children have a lovely way with words though?!

Posted on: November 3, 2009 - 10:31pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

there always seems to be more fireworks round here on New Years Eve than bonfire night! I can remember one year when my son's wobbly tooth came out in a toffee appple and he wrote and told the tooth fairy (who, by the way, had QUITE enough to do that night what with cooking hot dogs and supervising sparklers, without having to rootle around for a 50p at midnight too! :shock: )

Posted on: November 4, 2009 - 8:34am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

hahahahahahaha!!!!

Posted on: November 4, 2009 - 9:31am