Hi .im V im new to this site, rigt atm i dont want to talk about why im alone, its stll painful. but want to say hi.i have a 4 month old baby ,she my life. as are my older children.pauljust read your post really sorry you lost your wife my heart goe out to u all x
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Big hellooo and welcome to imstillstanding (waves back!)
Great name! It is good to have you on board, I am glad you took the bull by the horns and posted on here to say hallo, you don't need to talk about why you are alone, you can do that in your own good time if you wish.
For the time being, lets just get to know you! So you have a 4 month old daughter, awww how lovely, is she a content baby? You have older children too, how old are they? Are they enjoying their baby sister?
Look forward to talking more with you 
Hi salsa_tb04 and welcome to you too
I hope that we can support you with whatever you wish, we are all single parents here online, so hopefully we can give you some perspective on some of the decisions that you are facing.
Is there anything in particular that seems to be troubling you at the moment?
Hi Anna and sala. nice to meet you both. i have a 16 year old boy d who has just made it in to collage , training in zoology. im sooooooo proud ,i never did well at shcool even thou i tired hard. d2 is 14 and is th comic in the family . never fails to make me crack up. and l is 11 and a right little mum , in saying that d2 is the best with the baby ,l*. atm there liveing with there dad which i hate more then i can say , s just me and bby atm , but gotthem all this weekend so looking forward to it hope u have a good weekend planned x
Hi from me, imstillstanding!
Wow, you certainly have your hands full. I'm not surprised you are proud of d - zoology, how fascinating. Your older children sound like they all have very distinct characters - what a great sounding bunch.
I'm not surprised you're missing them, the house must be really quiet without them around. Although my daughter regularly stays overnight with her dad, I still feel it when she's not around - I espcially miss being woken by her singing songs on a morning. Glad to hear you have your three 'big ones' back for the weekend.
(NB I edited your last post to protect your privacy - we try not to use our children's full names for this reason.)
Hi to you to, salsa_tb04. Welcome to One Space
Hi imstillstanding welcome from me too
Your children all sound great and your pride in them is evident, do you have plans for your weekend together? have you got people around that are supporting you? how are you finding parenting a baby after abit of gap?
hi sally. yer i love being a mummy again, just wish i wasnt doing it alone, not got anythig planned just being together , hope u having a great weekend.
oh cheers mary x
Hope you're having a great time together, imstillstanding!
Hi V, Welcome to the forum.
hi V, I'm new too. Am glad you have your children, they help get you through and focus, I hope you get some support on here, I am hoping too. Sometimes you just get to the end of your tether and everyone around you gives advice, mostly conflicting. You have your own ideas and end up not knowing what on earth you are doing.
Big hugs to you xx