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Please someone, I cannot make head nor tail of this!!

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

C hasn't been at school this week, but I have heard from another TA that there are things being put in place again. The boy is being watched and monitored. This has been done before, but at least (I guess) this new lady has taken on board what I've said.

Posted on: March 8, 2013 - 10:10am

pancakequeen
DoppleMe

Lets hope she will do more than just monitor hazeleyes, you must be at your wits end with it all x

Posted on: March 8, 2013 - 12:47pm

Sally W
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Yes lets hope that this new lady is more efffective in her post and monitors this lads behaviour correctly.

I hope C is feeling better soon hazeleyes.

Posted on: March 8, 2013 - 1:39pm

donna77

hi hazeleyes,

sorry to hear about the problems you have been having. sadly some primary achools have no proper procedures for bullying , or certain children are allowed to get away with it for reasons we never know. i have myself removed my children in the past due to bullying. when i was at primary school i was bullied every day , name called for being overweight, but there was no other option., we lived in a rural area , there was only one school. so when my kids were bullied, i tried to fight back , making complaints etc, but it falls on deaf ears. if you cant change the situation then maybe its time to move on, and change the school. i understand you work there, but as you said work and personal life are separate. its your personal decision but weigh up the pros and cons , it might be worth it to move the school. sometimes it can make a big difference. your being terribly patient!! :)

Posted on: March 9, 2013 - 7:08pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi donna. Thankyou. Sorry you were bullied at school, it's terrible isn't it? My friend was bullied, and she said it's something you never forget, and never get over.

C has one more year left at this school, and we've spoken numerous times about moving him, but he insists he wants to stay. As it is only the one child he has problems with, I honestly think he's better to stay there too. In my view, the other child should be removed (which will probably never happen) My son does like the school, has friends there, so.......

 

Posted on: March 9, 2013 - 7:30pm

Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi hazeleyes, will the other boy be going to the same senior school as C? Do you know?

Posted on: March 11, 2013 - 10:10am