Tinkerbell2
DoppleMe

Hiya, I'm planning to move home in the hopefully near future with my child who lives full time with me.

my daughter now has her visits with her father in local places I.e Park, swimming pool etc as I no longer allow him in our home. I was just wondering that when we move does her father need to know our new address? He never asked for the address that I live in now before but he use to have visits there so obv needed to know it .

He has PR as on birth ceft but has never really bothered with our daughter and the whole rising her is left to me (which Is fine with me) is there a law which says he needs to know where we live? 

Posted on: August 19, 2012 - 7:41pm
littleangel
DoppleMe

HiTinkerbell,

I dont think there is a law that states he must know where you live. My ex and his solicitor once issued me with a warning that they were seeking an order to find out where my daughter was living (cant remember the specific name of the order) and I panicked and went straight to a solicitor who explained the order they were talking about can only be applied in the event that my daughter had become untraceable - i.e. nobody was able to trace the school she attended, where she lived and basically nobody could physically see she was safe and well. My solicitor advised that because my daughters where abouts was not being hidden from anyone other than my ex (i.e. education authority, health, courts etc) that the order he was seeking would be denied.

 

Hope that helps somewhat and doesnt confuse as it did me when I just read it lol

Posted on: August 19, 2012 - 8:00pm

Tinkerbell2
DoppleMe

Hahaha it makes perfect sense....I don't plan to keep it a massive secret and I'm sure my ex would not even bother to ask but he's not very reliable & don't want him just turning up or vanishing then turning up at my door months/years later (nothing would suprise me with him) thank you very much x

Posted on: August 19, 2012 - 8:08pm

Anna
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Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Tinkerbell2, I do not know the legalities of this situation, so I would suggest you ask our Legal Expert.

However hopefully, as you say, you meet up with him in other places than your home, then there is no need. As long as he has a contact number for you.

So have you seen somewhere, or is the beginning of a new adventure??!

Posted on: August 20, 2012 - 12:20pm

Tinkerbell2
DoppleMe

Thank you Anna

Ive started bidding on larger properties (2bed) for myself & A, fingers crossed we won't have to wait too long :) 

Posted on: August 20, 2012 - 12:26pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Fingers crossed for you too! It will be soo good for you to have your own bedroom and buba too Smile

Posted on: August 20, 2012 - 12:31pm

spanish gothic
DoppleMe

All i have been told by my solicitor in terms of living arrangements is that u would only have to give them the area/ city you are moving to, but everyone else is right as long as your not hiding A from the "main" bodies you should not need to do anythign else. 

Posted on: September 17, 2012 - 1:26pm

sashar

I think this depends on any legal agreements you may have and if you want him to know. Will it benefit you or your children in anyway? If not then just leave it. 

 

 

Posted on: September 18, 2012 - 10:13am

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Posted on: November 28, 2012 - 11:32am

Hopeful
DoppleMe

My ex doesn't know where we live, but he can contact me - I've kept the same phone number for years. Nobody has asked (including him) and nobody has said he should know. 

Posted on: November 28, 2012 - 11:35am