A Horrid Day All Round

My day started with seeing C's teacher over him being punched in the stomach yesterday, for no reason, other than a lad getting a strop on because of a game they were playing (with others). This lad had to sit out. A bit later, he went up to C and asked what he had hit him for? C was very puzzled by this, as nothing had happened. Next thing, he had his arm round C's neck, and a full on punch was delivered. C fell to the floor, dinner lady came over, asked what had happened, C told her, and after asking if he was okay, did he need welfare etc, she simply said, she was sure it wasn't done on purpose!!! The problem is, and it shouldn't be just because of this, but I'm friends with the boy's mum. C and the lad aren't really mates or anything. I was so mad though, that again, nothing is ever done at this school, that I went in, asked a lad that had been there, seen it etc, what had happened. He gave the exact same version as C. A girl, also there, and best friends with the lad who punched, had said that he hadn't done it. So, in I went, spoke to a TA (friend) and I was ranting about the dinner lady in question, not realising it was another TA and she was behind me. She gave a different explanation, and said the boy had said sorry, and that was the end of it. I went and got C out of class, and asked him if that had indeed happened, but he said no. Back to the dinnerlady, and then she said, 'oh I thought he had'. Ruddy lying woman. Spoke to C's teacher, and she came for me later, saying that the boy had been in floods of tears, because he had lied, and been caught out. The girl also changed her story too, (not surprising really). The other boy, (witness) stuck to his version, word for word, never changing it. So, I'm now expecting a call maybe from friend. I don't want to fall out over it, as the boys will no doubt be playing again in a few days. We always said if it was school stuff, it should be sorted there, but it was me that made a complaint, rather than C. Will wait and see on that one.

Arrived home lunchtime, and received a text from C's father. I had called the 'paternal grandfather' at the weekend, as C wants a grandfather in his life. Anyhow, not interested (no surprise there either). Text today was the pig asking if he was definately the father!!! Goes on to say, at the time I told him he might not be, cos I'd been sleeping with other people as well as him, so he needs to know for sure!!!! What a ruddy moron.

When I was pregnant, told him etc, and his mother told him that he couldn't be sure, as I'd probably been sleeping with others!!

I'm not even replying to his text, as it is so obviously his own father wanting to know. What a blooming cheek. He can bombard me with texts, but I won't bite. Nearly ten years on, and he is asking if I'm sure. He can take a running jump.

Sorry, that was rather a long post, but feel much better for getting that out.