j'sdad

Just introducing myself to unknown people as you do , apparently, 

my name is J , i,m 40,plus,ish. i,ve 3 children, the youngest will be 3 in march, 2014, and the oldest will be 25, aug 2014,  its xmas eve and i would like to wish everyone and anyone a happy xmas and new year and all the rest of the time allso,  just be happy,,, ye right, easyer said than done,, O to live in the perfect world,, or one that is even close , just nice would do,,, anyways ,, thats me,, to whoever ,

Posted on: December 24, 2013 - 5:51pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello and welcome, Merry Christmas to you too. Yes it's not an ideal world but we do what we can do.

Does your little one live with you and what are you doing over the festive season?

Posted on: December 24, 2013 - 10:18pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Take care and Merry Christmas.

Posted on: December 24, 2013 - 11:54pm

j'sdad

my 2, nearly 3 year old son (J) is currently living whith his mum, I have contact with him daily,  and he stays over at mine as or when it suits his mum and me,       The relationship thingy between his mum and I has,nt been  a simple one ,, but we have never let it get in the way of J's wellbeing ,Its like , I live ere by  myself and J lives there whith his mum,It has its ups and downs,  but it seam,s to be getting better as time go,s by. My daughter lives in Scotland, and my son has recently moved to the Leeds area, whith his partner and  three children.

xmas isnt realy my thing , but I put more effort in than useuall for J who is now more aware of the whole xmas thing than he was last year, so he was sort of getting excited but wasnt fully aware as to why,, he,s had a good time though .  

how was youre xmas and whats the plans for new year, if any ,,,, i,ve been invited out but i,m seasly thinking of just giving it a miss., 

Posted on: December 29, 2013 - 9:20pm

rudimentary mary
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

We had a great Christmas thanks, j'sdad.

Where have you been invited out to tomorrow? Is there a reason you're not sure about going?

Hope you're keeping well and that J is enjoying his presents!

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Posted on: December 30, 2013 - 12:58pm