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Lau

Hiya

I have an 8month old daughter and recently split from my boyfriend. Im a student midwife in my 2nd year. Just come across this site today and thought it be a nice bit of support through what can be tough times. Hope to talk to more of you soon x

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:20pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hello Lau. Welcome along to One Space. It's a fantastic site, very warm and friendly, full of support, so you've found the right place Smile Yes, being a single parent can be tough at times, but also rewarding too. Does your daughter still have contact with her Dad?

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:23pm

Lau

Yeh he will have her from time to time and he is good with her but sometimes I cant help but think he must not care. The split is still quiet new and im feeling ok but im bit scared of whats to come. I used to get quiet mad at him before and we'd shout infront of my little girl. this is mainly why ive left him. i didnt want her around that. im worried she feels my stress sometimes? do they?

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:37pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

I actually think all ages can pick up on stress, but maybe that's just me. It's great that he is having her. As you say, the split is still new, so you're still finding your feet, dealing with your feelings, a baby, plus the course.

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:41pm

Lau

yeh definately gonna try be happy and positive around her from now on. thanx for welcoming me. shes about to have her dinner so ill catch up with people tomorrow.

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:44pm

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hope she enjoys it, and doesn't spit it back at you, hehe. My son used to do that always!! Have a good evening.

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:47pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

hello Lau, you're welcome to One Space

You have your hands full with work and with your daughter. They do pick up on stress, but what they really hate is parental/family conflict as even as babies they feel unsafe so do try and keep things civil in front of her.

How long is your course?

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:50pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi Lau

Wonderful career you've chosen.  Looking forward to getting to know you...

Posted on: June 22, 2011 - 4:50pm