lonelygal

iam due in court next week to give evidence against my ex but i also have a meetin wif job centre at same time the job centre said if i do not attend my money will be stopped for 4 weeks but i am scared of what will happen if i do not go to court i can not afford to lose 4 weeks money as rent and council tax will be stopped and i will not be able to support or feed my children can sum1 help me please   

Posted on: May 5, 2013 - 2:16pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello lonelygal, have you had a word with the solicitor? (if you have one) If not, you need to get in touch with the court office as soon as it opens on Tuesday morning (unfortunately you have not got much time now) to see if the case can be held later in the day on the listings, probably not but in any case you need to get a letter from them saying that you are in court, to give to the Job Centre. At the same time, contact the manager of the Job Centre and explain that you have been told to go to court on that day and what your adviser has told you. It is a shame that there is so little time left now as it would have been easier to do something if you had had more notice

Posted on: May 5, 2013 - 4:42pm

lonelygal

thank u for commenting back i am just worried if i dont go to court i will have a warrant out for my arrest i am not sure if this is true or not as i do not have a solicitor  i jus dont know what to do x

Posted on: May 5, 2013 - 4:47pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

You need to ask at the court office as to the consequences of not attending, lonelygal

Posted on: May 5, 2013 - 4:48pm

lonelygal

ok i will ring tues morn but i have to be there 9;30 am and courts dont open till 9am do they 

Posted on: May 5, 2013 - 5:13pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Oh the case is on TUESDAY!? Oh poor you, I don't know what to suggest, sorry. When were you told about the court date? They should have given you some more notice!

Posted on: May 6, 2013 - 6:56am

hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi. If the court appearance is so early, maybe go there, get a letter of some sort to prove to the job centre, that you had to appear. What time is the appointment at job centre? Like Louise says, speak to the manager also at the job centre. Good luck.

Posted on: May 6, 2013 - 4:22pm

lonelygal

hi court and my appointment wif jc are at the same time i have rung the local police station they sed all i can do is ring court at 9am tomorrow x

Posted on: May 6, 2013 - 4:44pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi lonelygal, i hope you have managed to speak to someone at the job centre this morning and your appointment has been rearranged.

Good luck today with court, it is a very uncomfortable experience, I hope that you have support with it.

Let us know how your day went.

Posted on: May 7, 2013 - 9:07am