mini

hey needing advice my ex walked out on me after we had ivf left me in over 10 grand of debt i had my daughter at 6weeks prem i let him come down and see her even though he didnt suport me at all didnt come to any scans even though he was told wen and were she is nearly 4 and i have offerd him more days he has been told he wudnt get overnight due to nowere for daughter to sleep 3 bed house there is 7 ppl all sleeping in there alsohis mum n dad have never shown an intrest in L, seen her 4 times in her life never buy her anything but buys the other grandkids stuff iam really concerned my daughter came back yday crying her eyes out totally beside herself the ex came back early kicking off in my house all cos she had wet herself in the car nd he had to change her in the carpark of softplay didnt change her properly came back looking scruffy still with wet clothes on i ended up telling him to leave 4 hours he had her!!! and now he is threating to take me to court ive never seen my daughter like that we have never had any toilet problems at all my concern is she isnt happy abwt asking for the toilet any advice would be great do i supervise contact again? 

Posted on: October 7, 2012 - 11:04am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello mini and welcome!

I have edited out your daughter's name for the sake of privacy.

I recommend that you contact our Legal Expert (click) for some advice as to the way forward. In the meantime, give your daughter a lot of reassurance, every child has accidents

Posted on: October 7, 2012 - 11:35am