Pash02

I have asked this question to myself a few times now and i still am unsure of the answer.

"Would i let my son have girls over!?

 

I think i would be okay if they slept in separate bedrooms but like the lads at work say they will just creep in to the others bedroom in the night.

 

My son is 17 and quite mature ish but i still don’t know and to make it worst he lives at his mums and i have just found out he drinks, this really scars me as she was an alcoholic and i know she will do anything to keep him onside will her.

 

 I really could do with some advice on both issues

Posted on: September 16, 2012 - 8:40am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

The drinking thing.....I am just going through all this with my youngest. How long is a piece of string? There is a big difference between your son having a couple of cans and regularly getting absolutely hammered. If you suspect the latter then I would be inclined to contact your (least) favourite person, the social worker, and express concerns. You're right, a parent who drinks may often infuence the actions of our teens.

Posted on: September 16, 2012 - 8:48am

Pash02

What about the sleeping thing?

Posted on: September 17, 2012 - 9:14pm

Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Have a look at this thread 'Would you let your teenager sleep with their boy/girlfriend at your home?'

Are you now having overnight access with your son?

Posted on: September 18, 2012 - 9:39am

Pash02

Read that and oh my god how things have changed!!!

He is 17 and comes and goes sort of when he wants those lower intelegence people ( the ss)have no say in what he does as he is 17 and would tell them to "Do one"

Thanks

Posted on: September 18, 2012 - 10:11am