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Re: BBC2 documentary series
We are currently researching a 3-part series for the BBC and would like to speak to a range of families at different stages of separation or divorce. The series will examine the law, how it is practiced, and its impact upon relationships between parents and children. We are particularly keen to hear your experiences of the following: The immediate aftermath of divorce – coming to terms with and putting into practice, the Family Court’s decisions A few years on – making adjustments to new circumstances as they arise The programmes will attempt to make a balanced assessment of the long-term effect of court decisions or family relationships. Is the current system working? We would like to hear your views. If you are interested please contact me on 020 7286 0333 or email monikak@filmsofrecord.com. Getting in touch will in no way commit you to taking part in the series. Anything you tell us will be treatment in the utmost confidence. Thanks in advance! Monika Kosicka Assistant Producer
Re: Education Help
Hi again, A friend of mine has recommended books from www.discoveryboxbooks.com and adventureboxbooks.com. I have checked out the website and managed to get in contact with the company and there are sending a copy for me to try. Just thought I would share Lucy
BBC2 documentary series
Education Help
Hi Im looking for some help. My son has just started primary school and and I would really appreciate some advice with regards to how best i can support him out of school, encourage his learning and make sure i buy the right books ect. I have spoken to his teacher and she reccomended some. Im just really looking for some tips from fellow parents. Thankyou lucy x
Re: Introduce Yourself
Hi, I'm Lorna.  39 years old with three girls, 8, 12 and 16.  I have just left a mentally/emotionally abusive husband of ten years.  I have been out 2 weeks. This is the second time I have been a single parent.  My first husband left me when my 12yo was just 13 months old.  I was on my own for a year before meeting my second husband.  I'm not going to be in such a hurry to settle down again. I am really enjoying my freedom right now.  My 16yo has changed completely since we left.  Turned from a moody obnoxious teen into a loving, supportive young woman who turns out to be good company.  12yo is about the same as always, a loveable little monkey.  My usually very sweet 8yo misses her Dad and is testing her boundaries and my patience. Lorna
sweet secret toy
does anyone have a sweet secret toy they want to sell me? the 80s toy which has a plastic gem on one side then when you open it up you pull the arms and head and legs out to make a small doll. ive been looking all over for one. I know its random of me to ask but I cant stand the new version of SW.. and id rather show my niece the toys like i grew up with. if anyone has some to sell me please email me! wrigleatode@hotmail.com caroline
Re: Introduce Yourself
Hi My name is Tasja, I am 30 and have a 3 year old daughter, I am also nearly 39 weeks pregnant with my second daughter. i find myself alone which I really did not expect after the father of my girls decided that a second child wasn't what he wanted and I refused to terminate... we sort of still get on and I hope that we can remain friends though he only comes to see our daughter one day every fortnight...  we recently went on holiday together it was hard work but I went better than expected... I am trying to remain positive because of the kids but there are times I find it really hard... anyways Hi hope to get to know you all....
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Re: Single Dad i trouble
Hi Ben, Welcome to the site :) First of all I can fully understand where you are coming from, I am in exactly the same position as you, re ex forcing sale of house! Although you may feel that if you were a single mum things would be different, they certainly are not! I live in Scotland, so law is a bit different regarding some issues, and I also have kept up the payments on the mortgage since my ex left, it is a struggle financially, and have many sleepless nights because of it. But I manage. I have been told by my local council, that if I am made homeless, then they will probably offer me B&B as well, but have to give me something more permanent within 28 days, this may be accom with a private landlord, which is higher rent etc, but I will still have my kids with me, which is the most important. A court will not just move kids from their home, or the parent with care just for the sake of it, so try not to worry that you will lose them to their grandparents, also try not to jeopardise this by not making proper arrangements for them to be looked after. If you have to attend court, then I think that you can claim childminding expenses from them, look into that first though, as I said its different up here than in England. Is your ex making the mortgage payments? or contribute to their upkeep? Get proper legal advice Ben!!!!! Take care and keep in touch J x
Single Dad i trouble
Hi, just seeking some desperate advice.  I am a single Dad of three, having always been their prime carer whilst my wife got on with her rarely-at-home career.  I am faced with losing my kids - against their wishes - because the mortgage is not being paid, following our separation/divorce after her affairs. Mum - being in a far better financial position - is trying to force us out of the house to rid her of the financial consequences of debt, but that will make us homeless.  In such a circumstance as I cannot get us re-housed - and even Shelter say the best we can hope for is B&B, which she will not accept - she says her parents will put in for custody - after all she cannot and has never had to 'cope' with kids!  I cannot believe this would happen if I was a Mum - correct me if I am wrong please because I do not want to come across as some 'male-radical', but I am even facing prison as I could not get childcare for the court hearing and was found in contempt - she turned up and said arrangements were in place even though they were not and I had a four hour plus journey to court!  What can I do.  I never expected or wanted this situation and strongly believe kids should have both parents but that that is now not the case is beyond my control.  As a Dad I fail as any do but I've been Dad and Mum virtually their whole lives and do not understand that this can be so completely undervalued by both her and the system.  Any advice would be welcome.  Thanks Ben
Re: Hello
Hi Kelly Welcome to the site :)   First of all depression is a serious illness, but there is help out there for the sufferer if they want it. There is a variety of anti depressants which if one doesn't help then there will be something that their GP will find, its a case of finding the one which best suits the person. If this is not the route they want, then there is counselling, and CBT. The most important thing is that the sufferer gets the help, and if they love and want to be a part of the family, then come hell or high water they will do this. My ex partner also used to say the same things to me, "he loved me and his daughter, but wasn't strong enough" I found that he was strong enough to do everything else though, he moved out, got another job, had a social life, all at the expense of us. I was like you, sat wishing things were different! Wondering what I could do to change, so that he would come back! The thing is, it's not us that cause the problem Kelly. I'm not saying that your ex is doing the same, but sometimes you need to look at the bigger picture, and do what is best for your kids and yourself. Look to join groups, even if it is online groups to start with, the age my daughter was, I couldn't get out, so this suited me, and I have to admit, although I was living a "virtual life" it kept me sane. Look forward to reading your posts:) Take care J xx
Hello
Hello all,  I am new to the site.    I recently split with my partner.  We had been together a long time but he has been suffering from depression for the last few months.  The hardest part is that he keeps telling me he misses me and things might change but he doesn't have the strength right now to deal with our relationship. I am so scared.  despite the fact that I miss him so much I also have this fear of being alone for the rest of my life.  My friends are all married with kids.  I love spending time with my son but when he goes to his dads I have nothing to do but sit alone or sit in a friends house and watch them with their families.  Part of me thinks that if I could just get out and have a laugh things would feel better but I just can't seem to get there.
Re: Tax Credit problems
I think it might have been your post that I originally replied to. I think most people just go along with it thinking that because it's the Inland Revenue the repayment demand must be right. That's why I posted this. The system is totally unjust and will steamroller you if you let it. Some of the threatening and intimidating letters I received were shocking. Had I not been totally convinced I was in the right I would know nothing of it now and be over £2000 out of pocket. As it was, whilst they were looking into my complaint I was withheld Tax Credits for 6/7 months. I never claimed this out of fear that as soon as I had the money and had spent it they would inevitable request it back. At the time I came perilously close to giving up the teacher training course I was on at the time in order to find full-time work to be able to pay back the demand. As a single dad with two young children, this was not the sort of pressure I needed. I hope this helps anyone who is in the same situation.
Re: Single & 2-parent families wanted for BBC One consumer programme
Families wanted for brand new BBC One consumer programme. Would your family like the chance to become the nation's favourite product-testers? The BBC is currently looking for charismatic and straight-talking families to try out all kinds of products from brand leaders to those new on the market. Your family will have the chance to road test everything from face cream to the latest innovations in technology, letting the nation know what you think and giving your feedback to the manufacturers. Your family could try out the 'next big thing' before it's even launched on the market. If you would like to find out more information please call Emily Green on: 0121 567 6089 or email: emily.green@bbc.co.uk
Re: Im 20 years old and 11 weeks pregnant- really need to talk to someone!
Hi Alex Some good advice here.  Why not join our new online group for single parents at www.onespace.org.uk too?  As well as support and information from other lone parents who have 'been there' you can get help from Anna who is an experienced parenting facilitator.  There are also info pages, links to useful organisations and frequently asked questions on parenting, so take a look.
One Space online groups for single parents
Just launched - our new sister site www.onespace.org.uk   offers dedicated parenting support and information for all one parent families. If there isn't a single parent group in your area why not join our online groups on One Space and share the highs and lows of life with other lone parents. Get online support from experienced parenting experts, encouraging you to take part, share your views and build confidence in parenting alone successfully.  The online groups offer support and friendship from other parents too so share your experiences - what works and what doesn't - at www.onespace.org.uk
One Space - new parenting site for single parents
Just launched - our new sister site www.onespace.org.uk   Offering dedicated parenting support and information for all one parent families, One Space is a great new service for you.  You can join online groups, watch video clips and share the highs and lows of life with other lone parents. Get online support from experienced parenting experts, encouraging you to take part, share your views and build confidence in parenting alone successfully.  The online groups offer support and friendship from other parents too so share your experiences - what works and what doesn't - at www.onespace.org.uk
One Space - new parenting site for single parents
Just launched - our new sister site www.onespace.org.uk   Offering dedicated parenting support and information for all one parent families, One Space is a great new service for you.  You can join online groups, watch video clips and share the highs and lows of life with other lone parents. Get online support from experienced parenting experts, encouraging you to take part, share your views and build confidence in parenting alone successfully.  The online groups offer support and friendship from other parents too so share your experiences - what works and what doesn't - at www.onespace.org.uk
Re: Tax Credit problems
Well Done!!!!!!!!:)   Thanks so much for putting this post up! I too was hit with an overpayment which I didn't think was fair, but I just went along with the system and paid it back little bit each month off my credits. It was only a couple of hundred pounds though. Well Done Jason! Take care J x
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